My Parents have not talked to me about marriage because as many of you know I am very young as many of you probably are. Due to this I have not thought about marriage before and I should not until i'm like 18. I believe your parents should have some input into who you marry but you and your significant other should have the final say. I believe that teen marriage is wrong and is illegal. Marrying at such a young age is often due to impulse and will be regretted later.
I am a relatively young person and right now, marriage is not at all an issue or something I need to worry about. My parents do not have much input on who I marry. Of course, they have the right to an opinion and they are free to think whatever they want as long as they are respectful. I don't feel that teen marriage is a good idea because our brains aren't yet completely developed. This does not at all mean that we are incapable of feeling real emotion or that our thoughts and ideas are invalid, but that people should try to stay together before marriage to see if their relationship can stand the test of time and brain development.
My parents have spoken to me about marriage but all they said was pretty much we don't really care who you marry but in a nicer way of course. I think parents' input on marriage is kind of important but I do not think they should control your love life. In my opinion teen marriage is not really a good idea also in basically every scenario in Canada it would be against the law so yeah.
My parents haven’t tslked to me about marriage. It’s jusg something that they don’t think I think about yet, which is true I’m not planning to get married at 15 years old. I think my parents can definitely have an opinion on who I marry and my marriage in general, but let’s say they don’t like who I want to marry, I’m not going to take action on that judgemental opinion. I will be with who I want to be with when I want to be with them. For teen marriage, I think if they actually really love each other, and been with each therapist long enough to know that’ll last and make them happy, then honestly go for it. It’s their lives to live. YOLO. Why spend those years before marriage unhappy just to do exactly what you wanted to do years ago in the future because of what society says?
I've asked my parents before who I'm allowed to marry when I'm older, because they're really strict, my mother doesn't mind, she said as long as he takes care of me and loves me for me, I can choose. But on the other hand, my father has a lot of strict rules about the love life. I think it's really the decision of the person who wants to get married because they're the one who's putting their time and effort into having a good and long future with their significant other, the parents are obviously going to have some criticism to say, but they shouldn't be the ones to interfere with the couple and/or try and split them up just because they don't like him/her.
personally i think teen mirage is so dumb, youre so young youre supposed to experience new things talk to people have more than one relationship, getting married at such a young age is going to prohibit you form all of that. my parents have never really spoken to me about marriage but i know that im going to be at least 30 before i get married, maybe 25 but nothing less, i dont care how much i love that person i still have a lot to experience and its hard to do what you want when you also have to accommodate your wife
My parents have teased me about getting married to girls I talk to, but those are just jokes. As if now they haven't actually talked to me about marriage. I personally think that it is important for your parents to talk about marriage, but not this early. It is important to talk about what is good to do and what's bad to do.
Personally I dont see the point in teen marriage. The reason for this is because your too young. Once you feel that you are mature enough to settle with someone then thats when you should get married. My parents havent talked to me about marriage because im still young. My parents wont have much of an input on who im going to marry. If they like the person good for them, if they dont good for them.
My parents haven't talked to me about marriage but they have talked to me about dating and what I should look for in a guy. Did I listen to everything they said? No. I agreed on certain things like the fact that the person should like me for me and not for what I can do for them or anything but other things they mentioned were ridiculous to me. Honestly, I don't really understand the point of teen marriage since most of the time they end up not working out or one cheats. When you're a teenager you're still exploring new things and I don't find that you're mature or responsible enough at that age to be married. As teenagers we don't really know what we want and I don't think that most teens realize the responsibilities of being married. I do think that parents should have at least a bit of input on who you marry. I think this because if you end up marrying someone that your parents despise, I could ruin your relationship with them and other family members.
My parents have never talked to me about marriage, but when I think about it, I do not think there is much they can tell me. They have talked to me about treating a partner with respect and to be true to myself if I start feeling uncomfortable, but the topic of marriage itself has never been brought up. I personally do not believe that parents should have an input about who your partner is. You should be allowed to lead your own life. My parents have encouraged me, in a joking way, to get married to a greek girl, but overall, they do not have much of an influence.
No my parents have not spoken about marriage. I don't understand we parents talk to kids at this age about marriage but it is straight up weird. My parents don't input who I should marry and what they should be like but they do have some rules. I feel like teen marriage is the dumbest thing someone can ever do what are you marring each other for you don't know what it is like to do anything you don't even know what tax is or how to do them. The parents who allows teen marriage are even worst you know your kid is doing this and you also know that it is bad but you still let them do it anyways.
My parents haven't talked to me about marriage that much. I'm still a teen so like yeah. I don't teenagers our age shouldn't be in a marriage. We still have our whole lives to live. It's sad how in some parts of the world kids even younger than us are being forced into marriages. I would never let my child be married at my age. They would still be young and have there whole life to live.
i do not believe that my paents should have any input in who I marry. I say this because its my life and not theirs. thry havent talked to me about marriage because i still have along time until marriage is relavent. we do not come from a background where arranged marriage is part of our culture.
The topic of marriage has yet to come up with my parents. I don’t find it necessary for this topic to be discussed at our current age, seeing as how it shouldn’t be a concern for teenagers until much later. I think that at the end of the day, who you choose to marry is your decision to make, not your parents’. Obviously, they can have opinions and concerns to take into consideration, but it is your life that you are leading, not theirs. On the subject of teen marriage, I find it strange and am glad that it is not a prevalent part of our culture/society. Teenagers, though perfectly capable of feeling emotions and making decisions, are just too young to make a commitment as great as marriage this early on. It is also unnecessary. All relationships fizzle out, and they should at least be given a bit more time to be deliberated on before making such a drastic decision.
My parents havn talked to me at all about marriage. I think itś something that can wait. Kids shouldn be worrying about marriage. Parents shouldn have much imput either. Arranged marriages are just stupid and they usually only exist to benefit the parents. The other imput would be your parents basically abandoning you for marrying someone they didn't like. But it's your life and your decisions. I find that when parents arrange marriages, especially for their kids, it will most likely end up in a divorce. The kid isn't marrying the person because they love them but because they were told they had to. It wouldn't make a healthy relationship.
I have never talked about me getting married with my parents. I think my parents have some say on who i marry, like if they know that they really aren't a good match for me i think it would be useful to know but like if they just don't like them but we are actually in love i think they have no say so overall i guess it depends. I'm not really for teen marriage in our generation, i think the only teen marriage exception for me is that you're in like your late teens and like you get someone knocked up and they truly love each other, but other than that not really
My parents haven’t really spoke to me about marriage before. My parents have only talked about their own marriage and how they met. I think that parents should have very little input on who you marry because you should only marry someone you really like and not someone that your parents really like. I think that teen marriage is a big mistake because it almost always ends in failure and teens are usually not ready to get married when they are teens.
My parents haven't really never spoke to me about marriage. And they do to my siblings. But that's not fair to blame them because they think of marriage more in the realms of "Okay it's time for a baby". And I'm not exactly the most interested in one since the most it can ever be is 3/4 related to both their parents. But they do talk to me about a relationship, which is more awkward than if they were to talk about marriage.
My parents have never really talked to me about marriage... And because of that, because I wasn't taught the value of marriage I don't think that parents should have an input on marriage. However, I do know that marriage is for some an important think because it is a binding act to join two people in holy matrimony by the power of God or any other authority figure. As for my thoughts on teen marriage... I do not support it, because I don't think that at that age teenager are mature enough to make a packed of that size.
The fact that Romeo and Juliet can marry is not only immoral but also illegal because no party may marry under 16 according to the Canadian justice and criminal code. Not only that but the whole story of Romeo and Juliet is based around someone who is legally a pedophile in any country where women are allowed to speak without their man's permission. Also, my parents have not talked to me about marriage and I intend to keep it that way for as long as possible.
Personally, from any of my family members, I haven’t been spoken to about marriage. Though, I have been always told that I can marry whomever I want to.. as long as I am happy. I find teen marriage is terrible. People my age are way to young to be married in a fully committed relationship. I can’t imagine being married at my age. It’s just terrible.
I've never really discussed marriage with my parents. Though I do value their opinion. If I were to bring a guy home that my parents really didn't like I'd want them to be respectful but also honest with me. I don't support teen marriage. As teens we are just kids. Many teens don't think about the responsibilities that come with marriage. I feel it's better to take your time and get to know each other until you've reached an age where you can experience the real world together. In high school we are still figuring out our lives, trying to figure out what interests us, what career path we will choose, colleges where we would like to continue our studies... These decisions can cause a great deal of anxiety and perhaps separation between partners. This is why it is better to wait and see what life is like after high school with this person. You never know what could happen or where life will take you. (sorry for the late blog)
My Parents have not talked to me about marriage because as many of you know I am very young as many of you probably are. Due to this I have not thought about marriage before and I should not until i'm like 18. I believe your parents should have some input into who you marry but you and your significant other should have the final say. I believe that teen marriage is wrong and is illegal. Marrying at such a young age is often due to impulse and will be regretted later.
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DeleteNice blog! I have a question why would you need to think about marriage when your 18 though?
DeleteI too think that 18 is a good year to marry. Great blog
DeleteI am a relatively young person and right now, marriage is not at all an issue or something I need to worry about. My parents do not have much input on who I marry. Of course, they have the right to an opinion and they are free to think whatever they want as long as they are respectful. I don't feel that teen marriage is a good idea because our brains aren't yet completely developed. This does not at all mean that we are incapable of feeling real emotion or that our thoughts and ideas are invalid, but that people should try to stay together before marriage to see if their relationship can stand the test of time and brain development.
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DeleteMy parents have spoken to me about marriage but all they said was pretty much we don't really care who you marry but in a nicer way of course. I think parents' input on marriage is kind of important but I do not think they should control your love life. In my opinion teen marriage is not really a good idea also in basically every scenario in Canada it would be against the law so yeah.
ReplyDeleteI agree that parents should have a bit of input but they shouldn't be controlling. Good blog.
DeleteMy parents haven’t tslked to me about marriage. It’s jusg something that they don’t think I think about yet, which is true I’m not planning to get married at 15 years old. I think my parents can definitely have an opinion on who I marry and my marriage in general, but let’s say they don’t like who I want to marry, I’m not going to take action on that judgemental opinion. I will be with who I want to be with when I want to be with them. For teen marriage, I think if they actually really love each other, and been with each therapist long enough to know that’ll last and make them happy, then honestly go for it. It’s their lives to live. YOLO. Why spend those years before marriage unhappy just to do exactly what you wanted to do years ago in the future because of what society says?
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DeleteI've asked my parents before who I'm allowed to marry when I'm older, because they're really strict, my mother doesn't mind, she said as long as he takes care of me and loves me for me, I can choose. But on the other hand, my father has a lot of strict rules about the love life. I think it's really the decision of the person who wants to get married because they're the one who's putting their time and effort into having a good and long future with their significant other, the parents are obviously going to have some criticism to say, but they shouldn't be the ones to interfere with the couple and/or try and split them up just because they don't like him/her.
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Delete^Also you shouldn't be marrying someone if you're under 18.
ReplyDeletepersonally i think teen mirage is so dumb, youre so young youre supposed to experience new things talk to people have more than one relationship, getting married at such a young age is going to prohibit you form all of that. my parents have never really spoken to me about marriage but i know that im going to be at least 30 before i get married, maybe 25 but nothing less, i dont care how much i love that person i still have a lot to experience and its hard to do what you want when you also have to accommodate your wife
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DeleteMy parents have teased me about getting married to girls I talk to, but those are just jokes. As if now they haven't actually talked to me about marriage. I personally think that it is important for your parents to talk about marriage, but not this early. It is important to talk about what is good to do and what's bad to do.
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DeleteMy parents joke about marriage, too.
DeletePersonally I dont see the point in teen marriage. The reason for this is because your too young. Once you feel that you are mature enough to settle with someone then thats when you should get married. My parents havent talked to me about marriage because im still young. My parents wont have much of an input on who im going to marry. If they like the person good for them, if they dont good for them.
ReplyDeleteMy parents haven't talked to me about marriage but they have talked to me about dating and what I should look for in a guy. Did I listen to everything they said? No. I agreed on certain things like the fact that the person should like me for me and not for what I can do for them or anything but other things they mentioned were ridiculous to me. Honestly, I don't really understand the point of teen marriage since most of the time they end up not working out or one cheats. When you're a teenager you're still exploring new things and I don't find that you're mature or responsible enough at that age to be married. As teenagers we don't really know what we want and I don't think that most teens realize the responsibilities of being married. I do think that parents should have at least a bit of input on who you marry. I think this because if you end up marrying someone that your parents despise, I could ruin your relationship with them and other family members.
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DeleteMy parents have never talked to me about marriage, but when I think about it, I do not think there is much they can tell me. They have talked to me about treating a partner with respect and to be true to myself if I start feeling uncomfortable, but the topic of marriage itself has never been brought up.
ReplyDeleteI personally do not believe that parents should have an input about who your partner is. You should be allowed to lead your own life. My parents have encouraged me, in a joking way, to get married to a greek girl, but overall, they do not have much of an influence.
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DeleteNo my parents have not spoken about marriage. I don't understand we parents talk to kids at this age about marriage but it is straight up weird. My parents don't input who I should marry and what they should be like but they do have some rules. I feel like teen marriage is the dumbest thing someone can ever do what are you marring each other for you don't know what it is like to do anything you don't even know what tax is or how to do them. The parents who allows teen marriage are even worst you know your kid is doing this and you also know that it is bad but you still let them do it anyways.
ReplyDeleteMy parents haven't talked to me about marriage that much. I'm still a teen so like yeah. I don't teenagers our age shouldn't be in a marriage. We still have our whole lives to live. It's sad how in some parts of the world kids even younger than us are being forced into marriages. I would never let my child be married at my age. They would still be young and have there whole life to live.
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ReplyDeletei do not believe that my paents should have any input in who I marry. I say this because its my life and not theirs. thry havent talked to me about marriage because i still have along time until marriage is relavent. we do not come from a background where arranged marriage is part of our culture.
ReplyDeleteThe topic of marriage has yet to come up with my parents. I don’t find it necessary for this topic to be discussed at our current age, seeing as how it shouldn’t be a concern for teenagers until much later. I think that at the end of the day, who you choose to marry is your decision to make, not your parents’. Obviously, they can have opinions and concerns to take into consideration, but it is your life that you are leading, not theirs. On the subject of teen marriage, I find it strange and am glad that it is not a prevalent part of our culture/society. Teenagers, though perfectly capable of feeling emotions and making decisions, are just too young to make a commitment as great as marriage this early on. It is also unnecessary. All relationships fizzle out, and they should at least be given a bit more time to be deliberated on before making such a drastic decision.
ReplyDeleteI do agree. They're your decisions and your parents shouldn't make that choice for you.
DeleteMy parents havn talked to me at all about marriage. I think itś something that can wait. Kids shouldn be worrying about marriage. Parents shouldn have much imput either. Arranged marriages are just stupid and they usually only exist to benefit the parents. The other imput would be your parents basically abandoning you for marrying someone they didn't like. But it's your life and your decisions. I find that when parents arrange marriages, especially for their kids, it will most likely end up in a divorce. The kid isn't marrying the person because they love them but because they were told they had to. It wouldn't make a healthy relationship.
ReplyDeleteMy parents have also never talked to me about marriage. Great blog!
DeleteI have never talked about me getting married with my parents. I think my parents have some say on who i marry, like if they know that they really aren't a good match for me i think it would be useful to know but like if they just don't like them but we are actually in love i think they have no say so overall i guess it depends. I'm not really for teen marriage in our generation, i think the only teen marriage exception for me is that you're in like your late teens and like you get someone knocked up and they truly love each other, but other than that not really
ReplyDeleteMy parents haven’t really spoke to me about marriage before. My parents have only talked about their own marriage and how they met. I think that parents should have very little input on who you marry because you should only marry someone you really like and not someone that your parents really like. I think that teen marriage is a big mistake because it almost always ends in failure and teens are usually not ready to get married when they are teens.
ReplyDeleteMy parents haven't really never spoke to me about marriage. And they do to my siblings. But that's not fair to blame them because they think of marriage more in the realms of "Okay it's time for a baby". And I'm not exactly the most interested in one since the most it can ever be is 3/4 related to both their parents. But they do talk to me about a relationship, which is more awkward than if they were to talk about marriage.
ReplyDeleteMy parents have never really talked to me about marriage... And because of that, because I wasn't taught the value of marriage I don't think that parents should have an input on marriage. However, I do know that marriage is for some an important think because it is a binding act to join two people in holy matrimony by the power of God or any other authority figure. As for my thoughts on teen marriage... I do not support it, because I don't think that at that age teenager are mature enough to make a packed of that size.
ReplyDeleteThe fact that Romeo and Juliet can marry is not only immoral but also illegal because no party may marry under 16 according to the Canadian justice and criminal code. Not only that but the whole story of Romeo and Juliet is based around someone who is legally a pedophile in any country where women are allowed to speak without their man's permission. Also, my parents have not talked to me about marriage and I intend to keep it that way for as long as possible.
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ReplyDeletePersonally, from any of my family members, I haven’t been spoken to about marriage. Though, I have been always told that I can marry whomever I want to.. as long as I am happy. I find teen marriage is terrible. People my age are way to young to be married in a fully committed relationship. I can’t imagine being married at my age. It’s just terrible.
ReplyDeleteI've never really discussed marriage with my parents. Though I do value their opinion. If I were to bring a guy home that my parents really didn't like I'd want them to be respectful but also honest with me. I don't support teen marriage. As teens we are just kids. Many teens don't think about the responsibilities that come with marriage. I feel it's better to take your time and get to know each other until you've reached an age where you can experience the real world together. In high school we are still figuring out our lives, trying to figure out what interests us, what career path we will choose, colleges where we would like to continue our studies... These decisions can cause a great deal of anxiety and perhaps separation between partners. This is why it is better to wait and see what life is like after high school with this person. You never know what could happen or where life will take you. (sorry for the late blog)
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